Exploring the best approaches for implementing a secure payment system on personal websites for one-on-one interactions across various platforms (e.g., Snapchat, Skype, Instagram) is a key focus. Members have shared their experiences and recommendations on how to handle payments without exposing themselves to the risks of chargebacks, which are a concern due to potentially fraudulent transactions.
- Several members have advised against the use of Paypal due to its history of being risky and not adult-friendly, with accounts being closed and funds withheld.
- Paxum has been mentioned as a potential option now that they offer euro bank account services, allowing for wire transfers directly to the performer's account.
- Fairpay is recommended for its chargeback protection and ease of integration into personal websites. Its reliability and support within the community are highlighted.
- Alternatives like YourSafe and Skrill were discussed but noted for lacking chargeback protection, which is crucial for this industry.
- The platform mymember.site (formerly known as adultmembersites.com) is suggested for building a member website with various monetization options, including direct streaming, and selling photo, audio, and video content. It's noted for using adult-friendly payment processors like CCBill, Segpay, and Epoch.
- It's emphasized that choosing a payment processor requires careful consideration of chargeback protection and the specific needs of adult content creators to avoid issues with payment transfers and account closures.
Discussion also includes cautionary tales and advises thorough research and consideration of terms of service, especially regarding the adult industry's compatibility with payment services. Community members share both positive and negative experiences with various platforms, aiming to guide others in making informed decisions for their payment processing needs.