This discussion delves into the unfortunate experience of being slut-shamed by another sex worker, highlighting a critical issue within the community where solidarity is expected. Contributors share their frustrations, experiences, and insights on the matter, emphasizing the importance of unity and respect among all types of sex workers. Key points from the conversation include:
- The recognition of the irony and harm in sex workers judging each other based on the nature of their work, whether online or in-person.
- Encouragement to report shaming incidents to forum administrators or openly address the individual responsible, fostering a supportive environment.
- Advice on developing a thick skin and focusing on self-knowledge and confidence as a defense against judgment and shaming.
- Personal testimonials affirming that there is no shame in any form of sex work, with some sharing their positive experiences and the benefits they've gained, such as improved self-confidence and exciting life experiences.
- A reminder that the perception of sex workers often says more about the judger than the judged, with a call for individuals to overcome stereotypes and support one another.
- Discussion on the misconceptions surrounding the differences between types of sex work, like camming versus acting in adult films, and the need for public education.
- Introduction of the concept of a "whorearchy," a hierarchy within sex work where some workers may place themselves above others based on the nature of their work.
This conversation serves as a reminder of the need for unity, respect, and understanding within the sex worker community, advocating for a supportive space free from judgment and shaming.