Domming for Dummies

Since I got on cam, lots of slaves and male subs came into my chatroom. Usually, I identify as a submissive on the kinky spectrum, but I decided to give it a try! What started with asking my own Dominant about what to say, got more and more natural after a while. It can still make me giggle, but I like it!

Because I found Domming a little awkward at first, I'll be sharing my tips and tricks in this writing.

In the BDSM scene, consent is very important. But while camming, some people expect you to read their minds. That was something I had to get used to - to get to know what they want and what gets them off, I start asking what they'd like, or the thing that they've always wanted to be done to them. You can also ask if there's anything they dislike (hard limits). Some are into sensual, semi-romantic domination. Others are into humiliation and want to be treated like a filthy, little slut. When you have an idea of their fetishes you can elaborate on that.

When you have a willing victim, slave or submissive, keep in mind that you're the one in charge. ^^ You can start with them calling you Mistress, or any other (dominant) nickname you feel comfortable with. If they really like humiliation, make them crawl across the room, tell you how much of a dirty slut they are and make them kneel in front of the webcam, if they have one. You can make them kneel in front of the computer, to worship you. Ask them how they are planning to please you and make them describe it!

Some slaves have clothespins, rope and other things ready. If you want to punish them, make them put clothespins on their nipples, balls, cock or other sensitive areas. Punishments can come into play when they touch themselves when they're not supposed to, or if they didn't ask permission. I personally think denying them to cum is a lot of fun! Make them prolong their orgasm as long as possible, until they beg you for it. And maybe then... you'll let them cum.

Other fetishes that are popular, are sissification, small penis humiliation, cock and ball torture, foot fetishes, jerk off instructions (JOI), a thing for stockings... and so on. There's also a lot of people that adore latex. Regarding fetishes, reading up on them and deciding what you are comfortable with is the best way to go. To get an idea of what's possible, you can have a look at a BDSM-checklist, which is a list where all kinds of fetishes and other kinky things are listed. These lists are usually used to check with (play)partners what they're into, but I think they can be useful for this kind of thing too.

I hope this little guide helps fellow camgirls that are looking into Domming. If anyone has questions, don't hesitate to ask. I hope everyone will have lots of fun toying with their slaves ^^


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kandy_anjel Jedi
May 31, 2016 - 14:49

This is awesome thank you so much hun!!! Smiley (flower)Smiley (H)

Nymfoliekje Hotshot
June 2, 2016 - 16:02


Selenadoll Goddess
June 2, 2016 - 16:11

Great stuff !! THANKS Smiley (H)

BunniHop Skilled
June 2, 2016 - 18:19

Really good tips! Thanks for sharing Smiley (cat)

Nelli303 Graduate
June 2, 2016 - 18:54

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culotte57 Professional
June 2, 2016 - 19:09

This is good, thanks.

Maskedkitten Graduate
June 11, 2016 - 22:15

Thank you so much I love it. I am new as well Smiley :)

Camkitttie Queen
June 15, 2016 - 1:32

Thanks for sharing... some hosts know how to do it on cam... very different from real life where it comes out naturally. Those tips are very helpful Smiley :)

DestinyCams Expert
June 27, 2016 - 7:36

Very helpful. Thank you soooo much for this!

Claudiasmith Goddess
July 2, 2016 - 19:24

Yes. it helps me a lot! I wanted to do it (dom) but I didn't be sure how to, this is an excellent guide!! Thank you so much!! Smiley (H)Smiley (H)Smiley (flower)Smiley (flower)

LolaMuah Wizard
July 23, 2016 - 23:34

thanks for sharing, mistress! Smiley :P

dominalola Mistress
August 11, 2016 - 16:56

You are so true. Many times you have to read minds and they really expect you to have the same fetishes and be dominant. Smiley :) When they say do whatever you want - it is literally never true - and they still want to fullfill their own fetishes. Then you go for the tricky way and ask other questions like how would you please Mistress, what are your limits, what is your best femdom experience ... and all this way. Smiley :)

codymaverick Mistress
September 5, 2016 - 0:55

Very good tips. Thank you! Helps a lot!

RebelliaRose Wizard
October 13, 2016 - 18:14

Thank you for writing this. Being a Domme in the ls physically is so much easier to fulfill for me than the virtual experience. Great article. Thanks for sharing.

KylieBanks Skilled
October 15, 2016 - 8:42

thank you for sharing!!

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