Tristan published: In the Spotlight with DylanAces
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[img]https://wecamgirls.com/images/articles/dylanaces.jpg[/img][i]In the Spotlight is a returning topic on WeCamgirls. Today's guest is [url=https://www.wecamgirls.com/users/DylanAces/]DylanAces[/url]. Thank you for your time and enjoy the read![/i] [b]How old are you and where are you from?[/b] I'm 45 years old and I live in San Antonio, Texas. Just moved here from Dallas 1 year ago. [b]Do you find your age to be a positive or negative aspect when it comes to being a cam model?[/b] I started cam modeling at 42 and thought that this was going to be a short lived adventure. 3 years later and it's stronger than it ever was. I am so shocked at the cliental I bring into my room. I am always pleasantly surprised when I turn on the member's camera to find a built, tan, young, stud on the other side. It has driven my sex drive even higher if that is even possible. So to your question it is definitely a positive. :-) [b]Is webcam modelling your day job?[/b] No. I don't really have a job other than take care of my family. I am a webcam model as a hobby. I don't depend on it for a living, it's just fun, I love doing it, and make extra spending money by doing it. [b]Do you tell your friends/family you are a cam model?[/b] A few of my friends know. If any of my friends were to ask me, I would tell them. My friends are pretty opened minded and very cool, non judgmental. I just don't initiate the conversation because I have anxiety and I would struggle being on cam knowing they might be watching. It would hinder my cam personality. My family does not know I cam. I come from a very bible belt family and they would probably be very disappointed in me. They wouldn't see the whole picture or take the time to understand that being a cam model isn't just a bimbo showing her breasts for money. [b]How did you come in contact with the cam business?[/b] A friend told me about it, and I ran across a cam site once while I was looking at porn and thought it was pretty cool. I thought I would do it one night just for fun, and it was so much fun, that I've been doing it every since. [b]How would you describe yourself as a cam girl?[/b] I'm a sexual girl, with a kick ass personality. I keep it real yet take it to another level when it comes to pleasuring a man virtually. To some of my fans I'm a cool girl to chat it up and drink a beer with. To other fans I'm a hot, naughty, wife that they like to play with them and have virtual sex together. In hopes that if they are married or have a girlfriend, they will go to them and bring something back to them to excite their bedroom time. I try to make them think like a girl so that they can better understand their significant other and maybe get more of what they want and give her what she wants as well. So over all... if you want a one night stand, I'm a good role-player, but if you want a girlfriend experience, I'm that as well. Believe it or not some of my fans have crossed the friend zone. They take me private to see how my day went and to tell me how theirs went. We are so close that I never get naked in front of them because we are like best friends. It's cool and weird at the same time. But I love all of my fans no matter what they come into my room for that day, I will be what they are looking for. :-) [b]Where can we see you and how long have you been working there?[/b] I'm on Naked.com, MyFreeCams.com, Ifriends.net, and I'm starting a couple of new ones as well Xmodels.com and ImLive. Reason I am on so many is because I get bored with the same set up. I like the different dashboards and different look on each one. I like meeting new people as well. So I jump from site to site. It may not be good for building a stable fan base, but like I said before, I do it as a hobby. I would love to have a huge fanbase and be well known in the business in the future. But if it doesn't ever happen, I'm good with that. I'm just having fun. [b]Do you also have a personal website? [/b] Dylan-aces.com with Model Central. It's a month old. Not sure how long I will keep it. [b]Do you have a special room prepared in your house for your shows?[/b] Yes, I call it my Red room cause it's red. lol It's sexy and fun to do shows in. But I will do shows in my living room and kitchen when I have an empty house. [b]How was your first modelling experience?[/b] Well I was overwhelmed with the people in my room. I was doing private after private after private. No one really told me how to do it and I would hurry and get naked fast and get down to business, so guys loved that. But I was getting tired fast. It felt fake and I started not liking privates. Then a guy personal messaged me and kind of told me what I needed to do and really helped me out. I was thankful he cam to me and gave me the advise he did. I believe he worked for the website. lol [b]Does being a cam model interfere with your personal (sex) life?[/b] I thought it might at first, but OMG!!! It has helped it. Not that it was hurting, but I share some of my experiences about my privates I do with my husband and he loves hearing my stories. He makes me give better privates as well. I watch him get privates from other models and I learn so much from both the paying side and the entertainer side. I get excited in most of my privates and when I log off I climb on my husband and pour all of my excitement on him. [b]What�s the most appealing thing about your job?[/b] Gosh there are so many. I think the most appealing thing is feeling good about myself. So many fans have so many nice things to say about me, whether it is true or they are just being nice, not sure but they make me feel like I am 25 years old. They make me smile and laugh a lot. So I guess gaining a lot of self-esteem is the most appealing part of it for me. :-) [b]What do you like least about your job?[/b] I wish family and public in general would be more opened minded about it and I could be more public about what I do and why I do it. [b]If you could do it all over again with all the knowledge you have now, would you still be a cam model? [/b] YES! [b]What's your view on the cam industry in general?[/b] I think it is an outlet where people can be whoever they want to be and know that it is between them and the cam model. I think it is a safe way for men to get fulfilled. I think every cam model is beautiful inside and out for the most part. (The ones that do it with their heart) [b]Do you have a funny story or experience to share? [/b] Too many to share. But one that stands out the most was I was doing a private my 1st month doing it....I leaned back my chair back as I was playing and the chair fell. I laughed so hard... I couldn't get my composure back. The guy getting the pvt was laughing as well and didn't mind his tokens were going away. We laughed and then I treated him to a Skype show on me. ;-) [b]What are your plans for the future besides cammodelling?[/b] Live life to its fullest! [b]Any tips for new cam girls?[/b] Be yourself. If you have a bad day, it's not you, it's them! ;-) Be patient!!!!!!!!! Be nice!!!!!!! Don't log on thinking you are owed $$. Log on thinking you're going to have fun chatting with guys with weird screen names and while doing so you might make $$. [b]What's your motto? [/b] "Got MILF"? "MILF does a body good" My favorite quote is "A day without laughter is a day wasted"

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"Got MILF" LOVE IT Smiley (H)
Great article! Absolutely loved it! Smiley :D
Thanks ladies!! :-)
awesome!
My respet and inspirationSmiley (cat)
Great attitude, pretty lady, loved your article.Smiley (flower)Smiley (H)
Thanks for the nice words! I love this website. I enjoy being able to share my stories to someone other than my hubby. lol He is great and all, but you guys can truly relate to what I am talking about. Not only do you relate and understand what I am talking about...But I know I can share any of my experiences as a cam model and not be judged. That feels AMAZING.
So... let me tell you about a private I did with a goat... KIDDING! Smiley :D
Wow! What a wonderful interview. Thanks for sharing.

I'm curious. You're on such public sites, not hidden on a members only site. Aren't you worried that you're going to be found out by your kids or their friends? Kids as young as 8-10yo are prowling the public home page of porn sites & video sites like youPorn.

Sheesh! Once our stolen videos are uploaded to those sites it's tough to get the owners of the site to respond and remove your stolen video clip. Aren't you concerned about being found out by people who know you.... and the word spreading in your community? (I am) Like me, you seem to have a lot to lose (or your kids do) if you're found out.

Or, are you using disguises while on cam, so you're not really recognizable?

Thanks for sharing.
I have a strong net family. The family I have will understand why I didn't tell them and will continue to have an unconditional love for me. They will probably never understand why I chose this industry, until they ask me. Even then they may or might not understand, however, their love for me and our close net family will never be tarnished. I might reflect some false sense of embarrassment. But that feeling will not be initiated by me., because I am not embarrassed of what I do. It will be placed on me by society because of their perspective of what I do is wrong.. As far as my friends go about finding out what I do, they will probably tease me in a fun and non-hurtful way. I know 110% that it won't be a friendship deal breaker. I choose my close friends carefully and wisely. 3 main characteristics I look for in a close friend is non-judgmental, opened mindedness and loyalty. Therefore my friendship with these people will go on unharmed.
Thanks for the question and kind words. :-)
You're lucky to have such an understanding family. I feel the way you do, that I love camming, helping guys relieve some tension (and sometimes do myself =) and earn unbelievable money, that it's a pity we have to hide what we do.

My best friends are ok with what I do. They actually find it fascinating, hearing my stories of the weirdness on cam. I also shared with my sister.


She was ok what I do, but more concerned about my safety, etc. Then she she blabbed to her fiance! His knowing has brought a weirdness between the three of us. He looks down on me, and therefore changed my sister's view to be more critical of what I do. So there's some strain that never use to be in what use to be a close sister relationship =(

I guess my thought, or concern, was about your kids in school. With boys being sexualized so young now, it's not unheard of for cammodels to be outed by boys, who then tell their friends and it spreads like wildfire (to their mothers who ARE ultra-judgemental.) I'd think that would be hard your children if one of their peers outs you. Or maybe you're not involved
with your kids school at all, so no one will be the wiser. If you keep a very low profile in real life, I guess that mitigates the issue.

There are pornstars like Jenna Jameson who talk about how awkward it is now that her boys are older. How it's a challenge she hadn't expected when she was younger and became a mom while also a pornstar. And there was that teacher (in Pennsylvania?) who was outed by her students, lost her job. The youTube video someone took of her at a porn show will be on the interwebz forever. I suspect she's now camming full time because her newsworthy fame has made her unemployable in the vanilla world.

So I guess that was more what I was thinking of when I was asking about being so public in your camming, while also having kids who may be teased or bullied if you're found out.

I ask, because those are concerns for me. What I do, I know I can handle the backlash. What my family would deal with, awkward situations caused by my choices. That weighs heavy on me. And that is why I'm limiting myself to only work on one site, the only one that allows me to be hidden from the public home page. Still, someone could (maybe already has) recorded my sessions & posted them on a clip-site. There's always some risk in this biz. But being found on a clip site is less likely than being seen while actually ON cam. Camming sites, especially the free shows on the home page where boys can watch full shows for free. It's unnerving to me!
great interview, well written and shows a great attitude and fun nature. Thanks for sharing
Cool interview!
Thank you for the wonderful interview! I am 42 and just started camming. Before I started I was concerned my age might hinder me since most cam performers are much younger than me. I believe my age has worked in my favor though or at the very least has had no negative impact on my camming! But I have wondered about what kind of longevity I would have being this age, it's wonderful hearing your success story! All the best to you DylanSmiley :) p.s. You are so beautiful!
Thank you for the kind words!! I thought the same thing as you when I first started. I couldn't believe the demand for my age group. You are beautiful as well. Good luck to you too! :-)
You are stunning. It's always nice to meet other mature sexy models. I am 51 and I love being an older cam model. Theres less competition. I find that men love beautiful and experienced woman. We offer a twist that other models can't.

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